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網友來email問我意見, 由於佢30幾都仲怕醜, 我唔貼原文, 只講大概background

網友同對象都係 early thirties,女稍為大過男
耶女, 離過婚
屋企marginal endorses佢地

首先, if I were you, I won't ask一個好似沙文咁嘅人。我嘅marriage唔算成功, 若然有第3次機会揀而羅紗蓮又肯原諒我前兩次唔揀佢, 我未必會作出而家呢個選擇。

不過, 同耶女周旋, 我又不否認確係有些經驗, 不過這個層次等您决定真係去馬先至詳談, 有問題再找我。

而家先做一些基本分析。我認為好明顯對方係一個中女, 佢想嫁您多過您想娶佢, that's fine, seller's market, 可以吊高來賣, 這是您的優勢, 您係較有可能得到幸福嘅, 吊唔吊就要您自已决定。

我認為作决定的思考程序為:
1. 您係咪想結婚
2. 佢係咪您結婚嘅唯一option?
3.佢係咪您結婚嘅best option?

若然您答3個yes, 咁就可以結, 其他生仔、屋企人等問題都好minor啫。耶女亦都唔難handle, 耶教尐戆居嘢, 您當笑話睇都幾有娛樂性, 婚後長睇長有,有排您笑, enjoy.

Best Regards,
沙文
I think 沙文 would know it first hand as he looks back at his choice over his lover(s).  What is he thinking back then (if he is still thinking)?
dye 發表於 2014/4/3 18:41

Wow....
That's my Achilles' heel.
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Don't mean to be picky but I think it should be "hatred" in your advice.
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Sorry, 可能近排無端端做咗無牌英文教師,過度反應
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